不是冤家不聚头

bù shì yuān jiā bù jù tóu

destiny will make enemies meet (idiom)

(often said about lovers who have a disagreement)

不

bù

no; not so

是

shì

to be (followed by substantives only)

冤

yuān

old variant of 冤[yuan1]

家

jiā

home

不

bù

no; not so

聚

jù

to assemble; to gather (transitive or intransitive)

头

tóu

head