彬彬有礼

bīn bīn yǒu lǐ

refined and courteous

urbane

彬

bīn

urbane; well-bred; cultivated

彬

bīn

urbane; well-bred; cultivated

有

yǒu

to have; there is

礼

lǐ

abbr. for 禮記|礼记[Li3 ji4], Classic of Rites