敬酒不吃吃罚酒
jìng jiǔ bù chī chī fá jiǔ
lit. to refuse a toast only to be forced to drink a forfeit (idiom)
fig. to turn down a request only to be forced later to comply with it under pressure
jìng jiǔ bù chī chī fá jiǔ
lit. to refuse a toast only to be forced to drink a forfeit (idiom)
fig. to turn down a request only to be forced later to comply with it under pressure