来而不往非礼也

lái ér bù wǎng fēi lǐ yě

not to reciprocate is against etiquette (classical)

to respond in kind

lái

to come

ér

and

no; not so

wǎng

to go (in a direction)

fēi

abbr. for 非洲[Fei1 zhou1], Africa

abbr. for 禮記|礼记[Li3 ji4], Classic of Rites

also; too; as well; (not ...) either